Reading Design for Real Life by Eric Meyer and Sara Wachter-Boettcher has been a thought-provoking and transformative experience for me as a designer. Before diving into this book, I often focused on the practicalities of design—usability, aesthetics, and the user's ability to navigate an interface or product. However, this book has completely shifted my perspective, challenging me to consider not just how people use a design, but how it affects them on a deeper, more personal level.

One of the biggest takeaways from the book is the importance of empathy. As I read about the authors’ emphasis on inclusivity and accessibility, I realised that I’ve often overlooked how different people’s backgrounds, challenges, and emotions could impact their experience with a product. It’s not enough to just think about the "ideal user" anymore; I need to be mindful of those who may be experiencing mental health struggles, financial hardships, or other real-life circumstances that could affect how they interact with my designs. This book has inspired me to think more critically about who my users are and to create designs that truly accommodate a wide range of experiences.

Another major shift in my thinking came from the book’s focus on the ethics of design. I’ve always been aware of the importance of privacy and security, but the authors really opened my eyes to how deeply designs can influence people’s emotions, behaviour, and mental well-being. For example, the book discusses how certain design choices—such as overstimulating notifications or manipulative interfaces—can contribute to anxiety, stress, and a sense of disempowerment. As I move forward in my own design projects, I plan to always ask myself: Is this choice helping users, or is it taking advantage of them? This ethical awareness will guide my decisions, encouraging me to create designs that are not just functional but also responsible and kind.

Reflecting on the book’s approach, I feel a renewed sense of responsibility. It's easy to get caught up in deadlines, or the allure of the latest trends in design, but Design for Real Life reminded me that design has real-world consequences—positive or negative. Moving forward, I intend to think more holistically about my projects, putting myself in the shoes of a wide array of users. I want to create designs that feel human, accessible, and emotionally considerate, no matter what situation someone is in when interacting with my work.

In conclusion, this book has changed how I approach my design process. I’m more committed to inclusivity, more attuned to the emotional impact of my work, and more focused on creating designs that prioritise the well-being of users. I now understand that design is about far more than functionality—it’s about respect, empathy, and responsibility. And for my future projects, that’s the kind of designer I strive to be.